Tag: pain

July 29, 2022

birth

Anytime something/one new is born, there is pain.

We typically may not think of that, but it seems to hold true that from pain comes purpose…from experience comes empathy and/or extra understanding…from turmoil come opportunities for transformation…

May we fully mourn and lament the loss of what we thought might have been…what ended unexpectedly…what blindsided us because only when we release are we free to receive.

When we release the past, we free ourselves to receive the present (pun intended – present/gift).

We can then celebrate the birth of new things!

We can live in child-like awe and wonder!

We can open ourselves up to fully enjoy all the pleasant surprises Heaven sends our way!

What is being birthed in our lives now…or waiting to be birthed once we mourn, lament and release?

What/whom do we need to release to make room for the new?

Common Day Hero: I don’t know your personal story. What I know is that you come from a family full of faith and lots of fun. The way you love and serve is seen. Today, I dedicate this post to you, Aunty Nazma.

May 21, 2021

cancel

Cancel culture is said to be a type of ostracism in which one is shoved/forced out of social or professional circles – online, on social media or in person.

Have you ever been cancelled in a friendship, romantic relationship, religious circle, work environment or  familial/community setting?

It is painful to be misunderstood, unheard, devalued…especially by people you’ve grown to believe are kind, considerate and genuinely caring.

Personally, it’s even more painful when it happens by religious people…those who are quick to throw the names of God around as well as those who wear a badge of “seniority” in faith communities…claiming to be “mature”.

Mourn the loss of the people who have cut you out (especially those who have done so indirectly…insidiously) and simultaneously make room to welcome the entry of all who are truly compassionate, empathetic and gentle. 

I remind myself as often as I need that…

I will never be cancelled by The Divine and neither will you, my friend!

Common Day Hero: You are genuine, tenderhearted, graceful and grace-filled. Your kindness and Light are reaching so many. Glad to know you and call you friend. Froswa’ ~ I dedicate this post to you.

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