delight

When I hear the word delight, I immediately envision a child about three or four years of age. I can see this child laughing fully and freely…maybe because it’s the age that I imagine a child hasn’t yet allowed outside voices to squash his/her heart.

Delight is defined as great pleasure…at times, delight can be just simple, seemingly little things that bring a smile, a sigh of relief, giggles, laughter…glee! This time of year, I’m thinking of candy canes, egg nog, the smell of freshly baked sweet delights, holiday music, the laughter of family, a drive through the neighborhood… taking in the Christmas lights.

For some of us, the holiday season and all that it entails may bring sheer delight! For some of us, this particular holiday season may be painfully difficult with DaCovid/DeVyress and all the yuck that has come up because of it (with home, school, work, relationships not just the disease itself!). For some of us, pandemic or not, the holiday season may just not be cause for delight.

Wherever we are with it, may I suggest that we look for little moments of delight, along the way? We may only have a handful this season; may we fully enjoy them. May they grant strength for the journey.

My moments of delight have been time by the lake…the stillness and beauty of nature is refreshing. Time with my children ~ they are kind and funny! Time spent reading ~ books have been encouraging, challenging and comforting…a personal delight since childhood. And there’s my youngest furry one, my kitten Midnight. She is a delightful bundle of energy, curiosity and the sweetest meows.

The word “delight” also reminds me of a verse I learned as a child. Verse four of Chapter thirty-seven from the Book of Psalms (The Bible) ~ delight yourself in Yahweh/God and He will give you the desires of your heart.

I don’t take this verse to equal me getting what I think I want or if I do this, I get this. I can’t always reconcile the way The Divine chooses to move people and things in/out of our lives. I personally believe each movement is filled with purpose. It doesn’t always feel good and I don’t always understand or like it. That is alright.

I choose delight because I AM forever a child of The Divine ~ embraced by Love, surrounded by Light and forever secure in the Eternal. I pray this season brings your heart many unexpected delights.

Common Day Hero: You have been a shoulder for many to lean on, through the years. You are a resilient warrior. Know that I’m here for you, anytime. You are very dear to me. Anitha, I dedicate this post to you.

fumbling

Has there ever been a time in your life where you felt like you were fumbling? And I don’t mean just once in a game…I mean, fumbling like it was becoming something on the regular?

May the words of The Divine ring true for you here…now…in this very moment. You are exactly where you’re meant to be. I continue to fully embrace the belief that there are no accidents.

Fumbling, faltering, failing…forward.

And I’m good with it. I wasn’t raised to be ok with fumbling. I was raised to be perfect, to never miss the mark, to be extremely rigid about attaining “perfection” and always give the impression that I didn’t fumble.

What fumbling, faltering, failing…forward means to me is that I am not ignoring what needs to be addressed, not making something up and not making anything more than it is.

I AM simply stating truth. Acknowledging the impact of that truth. Sitting with it as long as I need. Reminding myself that self-care is not selfish and (slowly, but surely) prioritizing self-care. Creating a plan based on love for self, healthy boundaries and this statement of Truth:

I have everything I need.

This is a principle that was presented to me in childhood. It continues to bring comfort and peace to me. The Lord is my Shepherd; I have everything I need. (I lack nothing. I shall not lack. I shall not want). Verse one of Chapter twenty-three from the Book of Psalms in the Bible.

The Lord is my Shepherd speaks cared for, nurtured and safety to me. Each sheep is of utmost importance to the Shepherd and I am safe in the care of The Divine. I am taken care of and nurtured by The Divine.

I have everything I need when – promises made are broken, friendships fade, health fails, depression persists, loved ones relocate (pass on/away, transition from this life) and all hell unleashes on me.

I have everything I need because – I have love for myself (Divine Love is my firm foundation), I AM a Warrior armed with courage and Truth, I am committed to the journey of healing in every way – mind, body, spirit.

I have everything I need. And so do you, fellow Warrior.

If someone has unexpectedly turned the light off in your world, look for the smallest Light. The Light of the Sun, Moon and stars are always available…a reminder that the Light of The Divine is eternal. Listen for the Words whispered by The Divine. They are a Lamp for our feet and a Light for the path (Psalms again ~ Verse one hundred and five of Chapter one nineteen).

Fumbling, faltering, failing…forward…with you because WE have everything we need.

Common Day Hero: You have faithfully cared for those around you. Even when you are unappreciated, you exude courage and dignity. When we were kids, I admired your beauty and intellect. Now, I also admire your strength and resilience. Smarita, I dedicate this post to you.

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