{"id":3113,"date":"2021-07-02T00:48:52","date_gmt":"2021-07-02T06:48:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lalijean.com\/?p=3113"},"modified":"2021-11-09T21:45:56","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T03:45:56","slug":"fazal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lalijean.com\/?p=3113","title":{"rendered":"Fazal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fazal, Arabic for grace&#8230;such a beautiful word\/name.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve blogged about grace before, but just<em> this<\/em> week, I received the heart-breaking news that cancer has taken residence in someone dear to me&#8230;and grace held me as I began reeling; unwilling to accept the news.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t even begin to express all the emotions that come up when the word <em>cancer<\/em> is mentioned&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>First, shock\/disbelief hit, then a deep, sharp and almost debilitating pain in my chest, anxiety surrounding all the &#8220;what-ifs&#8221;&#8230;the adverse effects or ineffectiveness of medications and proposed treatment plans, the probability of death being so <em>much<\/em> closer, concern for those in caretaker roles.<\/p>\n<p>I immediately closed my eyes, took deep\/full breaths, started focusing on my breathing and released each individual. I reminded myself that I cannot carry this weight. It is crushing&#8230;especially for an empath.<\/p>\n<p>I inhale: <em>observe more&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I exhale:<em> absorb less.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Whatever you&#8217;re facing: cancer, career changes, child-related concerns, Covid, challenges in general&#8230;know that you&#8217;re not in it alone. Divine grace is waiting on all of us. Once embraced, we can extend it to all.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"color: #008080;\">Fazal (grace) to you, friend&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">On this journey, may we remember that grace is ever with us. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"color: #008080;\">Grace carries us. Grace keeps us.&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You can rest, knowing that <span style=\"color: #333333;\">Grace<em> has<\/em> us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><em><strong>Common Day Hero:<\/strong> <\/em><span style=\"color: #333333;\">I recently came across a note you wrote when someone very young passed away, unexpectedly. I was shaken beyond words. Your kind words brought comfort and hope. You have personally overcome so much more than most and in such a short time. Your acts of service do not go unnoticed. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Opa, I dedicate this post to you.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fazal, Arabic for grace&#8230;such a beautiful word\/name. I&#8217;ve blogged about grace before, but just this week, I received the heart-breaking news that cancer has taken residence in someone dear to me&#8230;and grace held me as I began reeling; unwilling to accept the news. 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