{"id":4070,"date":"2022-06-03T07:49:29","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T13:49:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lalijean.com\/?p=4070"},"modified":"2022-06-03T07:49:33","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T13:49:33","slug":"family-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lalijean.com\/?p=4070","title":{"rendered":"family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Family.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The descendants of a common ancestor&#8221; is one of the meanings the dictionary lists.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to &#8220;blood&#8221;, I know &#8220;family&#8221; to be the people with whom I choose to keep healthy bonds, commitments and traditions regardless of background, heritage, ethnicity, etc.<\/p>\n<p>There are people in my life whom I consider family; they aren&#8217;t &#8220;blood&#8221; and, at times, they&#8217;ve been more <em>present<\/em> in all the ways when blood couldn&#8217;t <em>or<\/em> chose not to be.<\/p>\n<p>There have been those whom I became so attached to, but they didn&#8217;t share the same vibes or sentiments. That&#8217;s extremely painful&#8230;and quite a lesson &#8211; EverY time!<\/p>\n<p>My nature is such that I love ALL people (thanks to my Dad) and <em>most<\/em> animals (thanks to my Mom!).<\/p>\n<p>Learning and reLearning healthy boundaries&#8230;sigh. Finally accepting behaviors instead of just listening to words without supporting evidence\/matching behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Loving fully and freely &#8211; first myself, so that I can then <em>from a healthy place<\/em>\u00a0love others well.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>I AM loving myself first.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>I AM loving myself fully and freely ~ the way The Divine loves me.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>I AM taking care of myself in ALL the ways.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Are you in a place that feels like <em>repeat<\/em>? It is alright.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>Grace upon grace to you fellow Warrior!<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Are you prioritizing your own health ~ spiritually, emotionally, physically, mentally, relationally, financially?<\/p>\n<p>If not, how can you take <em>one step<\/em> today towards healing? Remember, small steps towards big change!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><em><strong>Common Day Hero:<\/strong><\/em><\/span> I see your bold, brave heart shining through&#8230;always. You are a Warrior of a Woman, a devoted wife, a MARVELous Mom and so much more! You are seen&#8230;maybe not always by humans, but for shO by Heaven! Today, I dedicate this post to you, dear Kena.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Family. &#8220;The descendants of a common ancestor&#8221; is one of the meanings the dictionary lists. 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